
When the journey becomes the story, then there is no doubt other issues may be left unattended and unexplained. This is what happened to me when I landed at the JFK airport in New York on Friday morning.
Our UK Correspondent Barbara Scott explains where on earth she was, and how she was cut off from the Information Society.
I have had the misfortune to have been 'cut off' from cyberspace for nearly a month now and I can tell you it has not been easy! For reasons that I will not bore you with I lost my internet connection and despite numerous phone calls to my (then) internet provider, I was not able to get connected until yesterday (Feb 20th). Oh the joy of it. I have taken the internet for granted for over 10 years now and never thought I would miss it like I did. Like a lot of things in the west, it is something we just treat as the norm until such time as we are deprived of it. I am ashamed to say I felt like someone who is unable to get their daily 'fix' whether it be cigarettes, alcohol or, worst of all, drugs. I found myself gravitating each day towards my laptop in the hope that overnight the problem had been solved. On finding that it hadn't I became bad tempered and frustrated. I had to wait almost 2 weeks before my new provider was able to connect me again. Ofcourse I was able to connect via outside sources like the local library but it just isn't the same as being able to sit down at your computer any time you like. I could use the phone to keep in touch with friends and family but it is not the same as e-mailing them. For one thing you can do it when you feel like it and they can't interrupt you!
This made me realise how lucky we are here in England. Most people have access to computers and the majority have their own. Many have two or three! Children take it for granted that they will get one as soon as they start school and rely on them for help with their homework projects. How different it must be in your country. Even if a computer is available I suppose the lack of land lines prevents them being used outside the urban areas. I know there are a lot of internet cafes where you can get online but from my experience they are usually very busy and the connections are very slow.
So in a way it has done me good to see what it must be like for a lot of people outside the western hemisphere. Years ago when I was growing up, if you wanted to communicate with someone you had to do so either by telephone (not mobiles!) or by letter writing. I lived abroad for awhile so telephoning was out of the question but I wrote lots and lots of letters to my family and friends. It gave me my love of writing which is still with me today. Nowadays though it is done via e-mail which is not only quicker but for the recipient much easier to read! I may have been good at writing letters and stories but my handwriting was, and still is, absolutely awful! Still, I was always told that it is not the handwriting that makes a good writer but the content. I hope that is true.
Having ‘naturalized’ in the city, we present the compelling story of one man who isn’t impress with what has happened to his village of nativity, yet his memories of the village is haunting him.
By Mballowbannah
Rural urban migration has cost Fulabantang village a lot in terms of education, culture and youth activities. Many years ago Fulabantang, famous for its cultural activities mainly wrestling and the only boarding school within the surrounding apart from Armitage. Although partly settled in Tanjeh, Kombo South, there are certain distinct things that are in Fulabantang I cannot find in Tanjeh. The Banta Chekeyel, Banta Sareh and Ourdeh and off course Kertordeh (a traditional dining hall surrounded with either stones or wood locks)
Banta Chekeyel: In the winter of 1986, almost all the youth of the Village and some other hamlets were robbed off from their mothers by renowned Bora Mballow who was a Circumciser. Borra my biological father disappeared in the early hours of that day. I was taken to task not to go too far because I should meet a certain uncle who is coming from Banjul. Off we were all carried away to the bush under a big tree called Banta Chekeyel. We were all paraded and starting from the ALKALO Abdoulie Janneh Dem, followed by the others. What I heard was laughter and cries from the Alkali’s end but not him certainly. When he came to me, my father looked at me and for the first time during his career as a circumciser for 23 yrs, made two attempts to cut the relevant part off and spiritually, pretended to have buried it beneath his right foot and proceeded to others. From there we were all given something spicy and bitter called in fula Labu[1] to eat. Then we were swiftly whisked to a local house called Turdu[2] [i]where we were confined for more than a month. Inside the Turdu, we also sleep in order of seniority, the Alkalo first followed by the Imams son and then on. Also inside the Turdu, there was a big wood where we are supposed to clean our hands with for a period of one month by rubbing our hands on it to clean them. During this month, we were kept to behave like adults and learn staying from our mothers for a while. We were first taught a song by Amadou Ngonyo who was the chief caretaker and followed by those who take care of us called Selbeh’s. ``Ndugu yooo ndugu wellee welleee chaayooo chaaawelleee chaa, Ndugu sii man bawdii mbellaa hattaa dii lengii nguma; aadiii nyammi kau adii nyamii`` that is the song sang for welcoming food escorted by one of the selbeh’s.
Dunbar is well known for his leading role as Kenny Chadway on the critically-acclaimed television series Soul Food. He also landed a regular role as Benjamin Miles "C-Note" Franklin on the U.S. television series Prison Break, where he played the role of a character who was discharged from the military and arrested for black market dealing. The underlying reason for his incarceration however, is transporting stolen goods after he was dishonorably discharged from the Army. Dunbar's other credits include several guest appearances in Earth 2, Felicity, The Pretender, Two Guys and a Girl and North Shore. He also had a recurring role on the UPN series Girlfriends.
His film projects include Punks (which debuted at the 2000 Sundance Film Festival), Misery Loves Company, Sick Puppies, Whodunit,Dirty Laundry' ' All About You and Warner Bros. feature film, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang. Aside from his theatrical performances, he also had made contributions to the world of art through the mixed-media exhibit, ARTHERAPY. In addition, Dunbar posed for the November 2003 issue of Playgirl Magazine.[1]
He made a guest appearance on Noah's Arc as himself to give Noah (screenwriter and the main character of the show) some ideas about his movie Fine Art.
In 2007, Dunbar starred on the TNT transplant surgery drama Heartland.
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'Thank you, Ebrimah!
It is true that my wife Erika and me need a lot of advice for this great step in our lives.
Your blog is great!